13 Reasons why smart girls love Robert Pattinson

Connie Ann Kirk lists 13 Reasons why smart girls love Rob on examiner.com and I added the pictures. Enjoy:

It's no mystery that, like many girls, smart girls love actor/musician, Robert Pattinson, but you may not know why.

You're seeing his photo splashed on the covers of magazines at the check-out counter. You may have even seen him get zapped by an evil wizard and die in Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire or reluctantly fall in love after 100+ years of searching for the right one in Twilight.

You may get the general vibe that there's something about this guy that sets girls' hearts racing (and some of their embarrassed moms, too; truth be told), but you may be dumbfounded why even the smartest girls you know--those who might rather die than be called a 'fangirl'--also seem to love this British actor so very, very much.

There are a few reasons why.

Well, maybe a baker's dozen or so.

We'll keep it to 13.

Before we begin, it is important to note one thing about smart girls and Robert Pattinson. They know the difference between Robert Pattinson, the actor, and Edward Cullen, his character in Twilight.

Ok, with that caveat out of the way, let's begin:

1.) The first reason why is obvious. Smart girls aren't dumb when it comes to embracing tall, good looks; they just want to be sure there is something more behind what they see. In Pattinson's case, there is.

2.) Smart girls love talent. If a man can make them forget their troubles for awhile, or even better, enlighten them or carry them to a new place through a story or a song (both of which Mr. Pattinson can do), then he has their attention, admiration, and in some cases, a growing devotion. More than one talent? Double points. Robert Pattinson has double points. He is an actor, but he is also a talented musician and singer/songwriter.

3.) Humility scores big. It doesn't take an above-average intelligence to feel all warm and fuzzy when someone who is clearly more talented or better looking than the average person does not seem to know it (or show it, if he does)--and above all, does not take it for granted that you think he is above average in anything. Bravado doesn't cut it with the typical smart girl. She gets bored with it quicker than it takes the guy who is full of it to even realize he needs to get over himself. Pattinson is also not particularly sporty and gets teased by his co-stars when he gets hurt easily doing stunts. Many smart girls (at least, those who are not also student athletes) can relate to that.

4.) Robert Pattinson reads. Newsflash! Well, it's true. Smart girls read, and smart guys do, too. Readers share a special bond that is stronger than a lot of other things guys could do to try to attract girls. If some guys only knew. A lot of guys--a lot--do not read much. (A lot of girls don't either, for that matter, but we're talking especially right now about those who do). In interviews, Pattinson has talked about books he's read and has observed that several of the films he's appeared in so far happen to come from books.

5.) He has a great sense of humor. Pattinson makes people laugh. Watch a YouTube interview of Robert Pattinson--almost any one of them. The guy has a sense of humor that just won't quit, and best of all, it's self-deprecating. He's the kind of guy smart girls want to take home to their parents because they have absolutely no doubt in their minds that they will like him. Charm and a sense of humor go hand-in-hand.

6.) He knows how to be a gentleman and when. Somehow, to Americans, it goes with the charming British accent thing, but, more importantly, it shows a good upbringing. Robert Pattinson appears to have good instincts for when to be silly and when to be respectful. The maturity to know the difference is unusual for someone his age, and smart girls, who also tend to be rather mature for their ages, appreciate that. The British accent thing? Well, let's just say that smart girls know that one British accent does not a gentleman make, but perhaps the nerdiest among them may also take a special pleasure in the fact that Robert speaks perfect Queen's English and not in a more folksy, Cockney dialect (Americans are not generally aware of the social class bias that can sometimes get tied up with this distinction in England).



7.) He listens, and he's articulate. Watch him in a YouTube interview again. Do you see him listening to the questions carefully? Do you see him thinking about an answer rather than always blurting out the first thing that comes to mind? Do you see him try to give a fresh answer to the same question he's been asked 1.2 million times already? Smart girls see these traits and appreciate the actor's efforts to communicate thoughtfully, sincerely, and well. In the listening department as well, it doesn't hurt that he knows music so well that he can recommend an eclectic list of good musicians and songwriters that smart girls might not have yet heard of and would like to know more about.


8.) He thinks. Wow--another newsflash (he walks; he talks--LOL!). This reason, though, is also evident in his interviews. Robert appears to want to give a thoughtful response to questions asked of him most of the time. His answers themselves sound like they are from a person who thinks about subjects beyond sports scores or fast food. It makes one want to read something that Robert may have written. It is said that he has kept journals and written screenplays. It shows. Catherine Hardwicke, Twilight director, says he has, or is, an "old soul." Smart girls get what that means.

9.) He's a kind and generous public figure and friend. Anyone who allows fangirls to take pictures with him endlessly when he is out on his own time and not at a public function cannot be called anything but kind and generous. Pattinson's friendships--old and new--seem to indicate that he is a loyal and trusted friend. He is already using his newfound fame to help open up opportunities for his British friends' careers (musicians who co-wrote songs with him that ended up on the Twilight soundtrack, for example).

10.) He's not perfect. Pattinson's got a bit of an edge that keeps him from being totally perfect. He smokes (which might be one reason not to bring him home). He embraces the British habit of going out to pubs almost nightly, and he doesn't seem to care who sees him there. He's himself, which smart girls love. He's not trying to be someone he's not to fit into someone else's image of who he should be. It's called being genuine, flaws and all. There's something a little dangerous, a little unpredictable about him, too. Catherine Hardwicke, director of Twilight saw it, and it was one reason why she cast him as Edward Cullen.

11.) He's not afraid to show his vulnerability. Pattinson is said to be quite shy. Certainly, his soft spokenness and nervous ticks in interviews (combing his fingers through his hair, among them) seems to validate this. How 'manly' is it, then, when someone that shy is also that comfortable with himself that he can admit he has areas in his life that are in conflict with one another, like everyone else? Mr. Pattinson's sensitivity will serve him well as an artist. His good-natured goofiness will serve him well in making friends. The combination of the two will likely appeal to people in power in the entertainment industry.

12.) He's creative, has ideas and ambition. Pattinson will continue to surprise audiences for at least the next few years with the film roles he decides to take on outside of the Twilight saga. Right now, much of his career is dependent on those choices, and he seems like the kind of actor who will be thoughtful in making those choices, if he chooses to stay with acting at all. Those who have worked with him say he is a hard worker.

13.) The whole Hollywood thing does not overly impress him. You get the feeling Robert Pattinson could leave all of this newfound fame and glitz behind him tonight if he found a different means of expression or a line of work that interested him more. Not being tied to chasing fame and fortune is an admirable quality that smart girls--and people of all kinds--find unusual and admirable. (Gozde: Pictured below Rob at a Vogue party being hobolicious :))

True or not to how he is in real life, this is Robert Pattinson's public persona as it stands right now. Of course, it could change in an instant, and in this Internet age, the change would ripple around the world in a matter of minutes, and the tide could turn against him. When people talk about the pressure of fame, it might have something to do with maintaining a likable persona, even when you're tired of it--unless the persona is not a persona at all--it's the way you really are.

Smart girls know that, too, which is why they temper their love for this actor/musician with a curiosity about their own worlds and a zest for their own lives. They know it's fun to get a little short of breath, or a little weak in the knees when a new picture of Robert Pattinson shows up in front of their eyes yet again, but their feet still remain firmly planted on the ground.

Smart girls (and some of their blushing moms, as well as interested women of all ages) are keeping their eyes on their favorite actor, Robert Pattinson these days--not only for the enjoyment from what they see, but also to watch with interest for what the talented actor/musician chooses to do next.

What's that? Not feeling particularly smart, but still love Robert Pattinson? Join the club! What's that? You're a smart girl, you say, and you don't love Robert Pattinson? Well, you're entitled to your educated opinion, of course, but I know a few other smart girls who might ask you for 13 reasons why.

Source and thanks to Lisa for the tip :)



You can find the French translation of this interview here.

50 comments:

Suz said...

Yea, he deserves us...

xxx

Unknown said...

I absolutely love the genuine good guy personality Rob displays and while he may be baffled as to why we love him for HIM and NOT Edward Cullen (for those of us who know the difference) all he need do is ASK us, any one of us, why we find him so endearing

Unknown said...

I so agree, he is son brilliant and inteligent.. the photos next to the write are so good.

ROB PATTINSON for Dummies said...

WELL THE 13 REASONS WORK FOR ME! I might like to add that ROBERT, is one of those gifts that will keep on giving......
It has occured to me, that because of ROBS age, i will have years, and years, and years, of great fun, watching his career...YAY, a worthy hobbie!!
I Think ROBERT has started a movement among women, 'WHAT A MAN SHOULD BE IN THE 21st CENTURY'...

Cougar71 said...

I read this article yesterday on another sight and thought it was great! I like that on this site the pix and videos have been added. I watched the 15 minute video again under #7, and my God, he's just so beautiful. I don't just mean physically (that's obvious). He's such a beautiful soul. I'd be so heartbroken if the fame and success ever went to his head, and changed him from who he is at this very moment.

Yvonne said...

There really isn't much to add to this list....he's pretty speccial....

I would love it if he could read this....should we forward it on to his agent?!

LovetheLips said...

Goz -
Thanks so much for posting this beautiful tribute to Rob's undeniable appeal to us "smart girls"...

LovetheLips said...

Yvonne - I agree...I would love for Rob to read this...

Anonymous said...

Just wanted to point out that British people don't go out to the pub every single night as this article suggests! It makes us sound like a nation of alcoholics! Most Brits would go to the pub on a Friday night and maybe one other weekend night but not every night!!!

thirtysomething said...

*sigh* well said.

Kathy#1 said...

Thanks Goz for the post. I LOVE the pics with the article. If you did it, thanks, since I saw the article somewhere else but without the pics. Love him...

Kathy#1 said...

soprano, I just want you to know that most of us in the US don't believe that Brits do that - it is some type of stereotype that the majority of us don't hold to. As for the false rumors, I doubt that he's drinking in excess everynight...

Kathy#1 said...

Yvonne, what a great idea - it would be nice for him to read something good for a change.

Sophia Z.86 said...

Mom always told me that I am smart... well, well...

Anna said...

Pfff... tell me something I don't know!

;)

Sophia Z.86 said...

'

'Rob, gorgeous lover, you like smart girls, don´t you? And strong girls too... ok, ok, I am all that! Come on man, a hot greek/brazilian gal all for your own pleasure... come babe come...'

Jeez!

Good afternoon, everybody!

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anna F said...

This article is a very nice change from some of the garbage found on the internet.
Well, written and very clear.

But Naturally, criticism sells more than "niceties".

Chicago girl now in LA said...

Hey Suz, hello Sophia!

XOXOXO GOZDE~Thanks so much for posting this and for adding all of the fab pics/videos to illustrate each point. Beautiful job.

What a perfect article to post. It has cleansed my palate from that awful phony Emma Watson interview. I'm glad Emma's office is pursuing that Russian magazine.

I'm so glad Rob is working on a non-Twilight-related job. It is refreshing to see him in regular clothes in NYC.

margot said...

great

true.true.trufax.

I think if the coming role opportunities will not satisfy him, he will quit, but I do hope it won't happen

Mechevpao said...

Great article!!

I liked the pics and videos that were edited in hte post, thanks for those ;)

Kathy#1 said...
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Pet73 said...

Hi girls!

Saw this already earlier and really thought when reading it: Yes, we older fans are the cooler and wiser ones, much better that all the others, since we REALLY know why we love our Rob so much and know how to appreciate his qualities !

Mrs. Robinsane said...

Hi everyone!

My only serious quibble with this article: the fact that, while Rob is described fairly, in all his uniqueness, Twilight fans who also happen to be moms are (once again) stereotyped as "embarrassed" and "blushing."

Why should it be a source of shame, to support someone who is so clearly worthy of our careful and genuine admiration?

Isn't it more appropriate for a slightly older, witty, wise, creative, and intelligent woman—and I will, at 40, valiantly volunteer myself as an example—who possesses the necessary perspective (i.e. romantic and life experience) to truly appreciate RP's exceptionalism, to be an unabashed (and not embarrassed) admirer?

Or is it more acceptable, more reasonable, somehow, for a little twleve-year-old girl to giggle and coo—and yes, childishly blush—over him, without having the maturity or mental capacity to actually appreciate him, and without being a qualified candidate (I should hope not, anyway) for RP's real-life affections?

*Mrs. R IS blushing over RP—and you all know why*

Kathy#1 said...

sophia...it was the "come baby come" that got me. You really need to work so stop those posts that give me other thoughts...hahaha..

Cherry said...

The person who wrote this article totally gets it.

Pet73 said...

Mrs. Robinsane-

I'm not 12 (that's been maaany years ago) but I'm not sure if I would not still be blushing face to face with Rob :).

Pet73 said...

To be honest - I maybe would get a panic attack :(

WinWin said...

Thanks Gozde. I love this article. Finally someone understands us. I hope he doesn't change too much.

margot said...

hi Mrs R :)))

you're right and your dart hit 10 :)

it's just a part of common stereotypising (I'm afraid there is no such word) of women, like , nobody cares what you are like but if you like Twilght you are or silly screaming crazy teen or stalking cougar or blushing secretly TwiMom

as far as I can see around we are nothing of that menu and - WTF ? - why shoul be we ??

tinababy1 said...

Hey Margot, have a new ff for you

His Personal Assistant, have you read it?

Babs said...

Thanks Gozde for posting this, someone finally explained it clearly to those people who still don't get it (including bf LOL).
I think I'll hang this post on my bulletin board :)

rpattzdude said...

gosh one of the best articles of the month! yeay loved those pics Gozde, : )

love Pattinson for who he truly is not someone he tries to be, love him for being him : )

loved the nr 10 that he isnt perfect, my words are for everyone is that no one is perfect and now that its written on the net even he isnt perfect.

I truly try to see him as a individual, as Pattinson and not as Edward, but man it gets harder and harder for every fanfic I read day in and day out, because the only face i see is his. But you can look at it at the bright side: that he plays Edward that great that makes you remember him...

love every single pic of him, it never is the same from one pic to another, he looks so different all the time.

xxx

margot said...

Tina thx vm

but

it's high on my list ...nearly started reading... 17.06 is the beginning of my summer holiday and ... then ..... yupppiiii

however, no internet (but ancient modem) for 2 months minus visits at city home

I'll be reading a lot books and FF

frankly speaking I'm so addicted to Tie Guy that I have to read it often

Kate said...

I love this!!!
So true

margot said...

ekhm ekhm ... I love not this but Tie Guy (with Bella of course) and of course I picture him with Rob's GQ pics in suit and in white tee

ahhhh

not new, still good
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZHQ706q7VnE

tracyvanhorne said...

That is my most favorite Rob interview... he looks so happy and relaxed. Makes me wish I was that bottle of coke ;)

LovetheLips said...

((((((((((Mrs.Robinsane))))))))))))


You're my hero...

rpattzgirl survived Rob! said...

And this is so why we love him so much-everything said is true...I wish we could clone him so that everyone of us could have some Rob..but, we just have to love from afar..
*sigh*

Anonymous said...

Great article and I totally find myself in those 13 points (except for the blushing mom...I'm a mom but not embarrassed to be a Rob fan hell no! lol).

Great interview; I had never seen it. Where can I see the rest of it??

Lisa Serrano said...

Exactly!! When my DH says "what the heck do you see in this guy?" I'll have to pop this up!

Thanks Goz for posting this especially with all the Pix and even though I've seen that Variety interview many times it's still my favorite and I watched it all over again!

Sylvie-thats the entire interview it cuts off there.

Redgie said...

My friend asked me a few days ago why I like Rob. I couldn't sum it up well enough. This post explains it all for me.

I just emailed her the link to this page.

Anonymous said...

It is an excellent article and I was delighted to read it. The *blushing Mom* comments do annoy me, as do all the references you read in other articles, even from cast members referring to older fans as "soccer mom" or 'hockey Moms' It's almast as if they are saying.."this is a teen idol, you have no business being here."..I remember when my brother was a teen and Elvis came out, he bought Elvis records, my Mom bought Elvis albums and was a life long fan..my brother grew out of it. No one pointed to her and said "you have no business liking Elvis"..

Gwad! I hate people labeling me, if I'm honest enough to say I am truely a fan then damn it, respect that..(ok, I'm calm now..I'll stop ranting.)

Sara said...

A+
I can't say much else.
All the people who do not understand our loyalty, should read this.
And like Yvonne said, so should Rob <3

RPnKSaddict said...

Rob,vogue party being hobolicious....with the shiteous Nikes!! lol Love this scruffy man!

RPnKSaddict said...

This article was good to begin with I was raving about it yesterday.

Gozde you hit a home run with the pics and vids awesome visual aids never hurt where Rob is concerned.

maha said...

He is so attractive and he has a wonderful personality . The article is great ,I love it.

Unknown said...

Being humble, multitalented, thinker, a friend of many......does make him much different from the Hollywood clan.
I never took him as an eye candy but as a highly intellectual artist. No matter what character he is playing, from a geek to gay, unbalanced to heartthrob...he becomes that person. So u really forget it's not him, he’s just playing to be that character. I guess that explains how some can’t distinguish between Edward and RPattz.
After the entire fan following he still doesn’t loose his wit. There is a lot more behind this silk facade.
thanx for u'r list. Very well written!!

Honey said...

Word

:)

Mariya said...

Wow I have nothing more to say!Amazing article and i too wish Rob could read this, lets send it to him hehehe...

And love the video interview, that's my favourite of all.

 
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